Pornography is soul shattering to many of us, it can destroy your life.
Nearly all men who view pornography use it as the stimulus for
masturbation. As a result they frequently suffer feelings of guilt,
shame, regret and humiliation. They feel trapped, out of control, and in despair. They literally become slaves to their own lust.
- Pornography places men on an emotional roller coaster. One minute they're happy, the next they're sad; calm, then angry; kind, then cold. These moods change without warning, causing stress and pain for wives, children, friends and associates. Feelings of estrangement ensue, further isolating and alienating them from their loved ones, which often drive men even deeper into the self-medicating escape of pornography.
- Men isolated on the slippery slope of pornography typically fail in their families and marriages, and in their relations with people in general. They are less effective, less reliable, less creative, and more prone to meanness and fits of anger. In essence, pornography turns men into zombie-like characters who are but a shadow of their true selves and potential. They waste their time, talents and resources, caught up in their own dark little world of pornography viewing.
- In the advanced stages, pornography addiction can lead a man to commit rape, incest, violence, exhibitionism, other sex-related crimes and even suicide. Millions of men have lost their families, their careers, their reputations, their good names, and their freedom just to satisfy their addiction.
- Pornography can take an immensely good, talented, enthusiastic man and turn him into one of the walking dead.
Porn is a purely selfish hobby-it gives nothing to anyone but the
viewer and the porn producer. In that way it is not at all like other
hobbies, such as painting, writing, playing a musical instrument,
woodworking or gardening, which give something of value to others and
make the hobbyist a more well-rounded person.
Article from Net Nanny
fortunately, there are cures to this life sucking curse. The first action is to accept that you have a problem that needs fixed. When you get sick, you seek a cure, unless you enjoy being sick.
Here is a small list of websites you can vist that will give some Help & Advise on how to sure this illness.
The first website in the list in my personal recommendation. Its an Internet filter and parental control program, that will not alow you to search for or enter porn websites. Its also completely free.
- www1.k9webprotection.com/
- www.wikihow.com/Avoid-Pornography
- www.wikihow.com/Stop-Watching-Porn-on-Your-Computer
- http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110814194835AAtHVby
- www.streetarticles.com/self-improvement/how-to-stop-watching-porn-with-these-easy-steps
I hope this helps you understand. Remember, the first battle against porn must be fought in your mind. Your thoughts must be controled, by you.
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